Being Single

Well after going through an article “The 50 Best Things about Being Single”. I was thinking that is it really hurts being single? Lets talks about the other side of the mirror, being single may be fun .we have to just think that is it really so fun being in a relationship? The soul of a healthy relationship lies in the better understanding. You can see your best friend could be in the relationship from hell, your another friend could be in a monotonous and uneventful relationship, but I find people still feel sorry for being single? Is something wrong here? They might even imply that something’s “wrong” with them if they’re single. Single life can be the most exciting time of your life. It’s just the matter of Attitude, so what really matters is the attitude towards life. Change the attitude and u will never feel sorry for being single  and can speak out loudly with proud “I am single and loving it”. That’s not the only reason I can name you a lot of reasons some of them may be like as follows…

Being single we can always focus on friendship. Being single doesn’t have to mean being lonely. When you’re single, you have more time to do a variety of things, all of which are opportunities of new friendships. Even if you’re an introvert, this can be an excellent time to rip your extroverted side. Make it a priority in your life to create meaningful friendships and enrich your existing ones. Being single “You can spend as much time as you want with your friend and family and nobody’s lip will drag the ground.”

Generally people’s advice about relationship dictates that compromise, sacrifice is essential to a healthy relationship. Perhaps if you’ve been in a relationship before, you realize how much stuff you had to give up and what you pay in order to making that relationship work. Or maybe you forgot about that stuff, because you’re focused on the things you miss. Well, this is a good time to shift that focus. If you’re unsystematic guy, isn’t it great to be able to be properly systematic for some other person? If you’re a neat freak, isn’t it wonderful to be able to organize everything, and find it the way you left it? Isn’t it nice to be able to work that a partner might be averse to? Isn’t it cool to be able to go out spontaneously, without wondering whether your partner can or should be invited and join you? A relationship can add many good things to your life, but it also adds some rigidity and many constrains, so take the time to appreciate your current flexibility. Being single “You can have eight hours of undisturbed sleep with the covers all to yourself.”And “You can be happy with who you are, not who he or she wants you to be.”

Relationships tend to come along with lot of planning for example; you can’t just accept a job across the country without touching base with your partner. And generally, if you’re in it for the long term, you’ll likely talk about what you’ll be doing years from now. But when you’re single, the future is completely open. Today you’re at your desk with present and a year from now you might be somewhere else with some new things. So being single “You don’t have to deal with anyone’s grumpy, moody personalities.”

Being single you can always enjoy your freedom. Everybody has his own dreams and desires, and the chance of pairing up with someone who shares such a fantasy with equal fervour is not something to hold your breath for. So what are you waiting for? Find some people who have the same idea, or just go for it alone, and you’ll meet like-minded people along the way. There might be some adventurous endeavours you might want to indulge in. Being single “The TV Guide crossword puzzle is YOURS, ALL YOURS.”

And finally u can spoil yourself. Being single gives you a lot more “you” time. Go spoil yourself! Do whatever you love to do. Just like this

“You can go out and flirt as much as your heart desires, without a worry in the world.”

So enjoy your single dome and Just say “I love being single”